How to end a relationship without crushing your Girlfriend's feelings.
1. Don't forget that ending is not a nice thing, Be prepared to be the "bad guy" and discover that there can be joy in that role.
2. Before you have the ending conversation, get it clear in your mind., you want and need to end this now, set aside complexity for a while and go for simple.
3. You don't have to give reasons, You know that the reason is that you don't love this person now, love is not always a reasonable thing.
4. Be gentle, but also be firm and clear.
5. You have already ended it in your mind, let it be. No regurgitation. Do the main job of ending and let all the details take care of themselves. End of discussion.
6. In spite of rule #5, know that closure is only an ideal,You may always wonder about and even regret this ending. You may dream of this person all your life. Deep down in your soul, endings are only commas, not periods.
Crdited to Thomas Moor.